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The person who uses your product and the person who pays for it are sometimes different humans. That one fact changes everything. Map your personas with AI Before you build, ask: 'who signs the check?' If you can name that specific human and how they'd justify the spend, you have a real business.
Here is a distinction that costs new founders months of wasted work: the customer is the person who pays you; the user is the person who interacts with the product. In a lot of businesses they are the same human, so the distinction seems pointless. In many businesses they are not, and that fact breaks founders who miss it.
| Business type | User | Customer (pays) |
|---|---|---|
| Duolingo free | Student | Advertiser |
| Duolingo Plus | Student | Student |
| Classroom EdTech | Student | School district |
| Kid's game with IAP | Kid | Parent |
| Enterprise SaaS | Engineer using it | VP of Engineering (buys) |
Look at row 3. The student uses the product every day. The student has opinions. The student is not the customer. The district signs the contract. Design for the student (or they won't use it and the district will churn), but sell to the district (or you have no revenue). Miss either side and you die.
Your marketing must talk to the person who pays. Not always the person who uses. A 10-year-old kid on Roblox is not going to read your copy; a parent on Instagram will. So write for the parent, even though the product is for the kid. This is why so much kid's-ed marketing shows a smiling parent and happy child, not a screenshot of the app. They sell to parents.
In business-to-business, there's rarely one customer. There's a committee: the user, the champion, the budget owner, the procurement person, sometimes IT and legal. A classic B2B SaaS deal can have 6-8 people involved. For a teen founder, this is why B2B is hard — you need to hold multi-person sales calls. Start with tiny B2B (self-serve PLG tools where the user is the buyer) and level up.
"I'm building [product] for [user type]. Act as a product strategist. Map out:
1. The USER (who interacts with it day to day) — their goals, their frustrations, what they'd tell a friend.
2. The CUSTOMER (who pays) — what outcome they care about, what would make them approve the purchase.
3. The DECISION MAKER (if different from customer) — what they need to see to say yes.
4. Other stakeholders who could block the sale.
For each, list the top 3 objections to my product and one sentence I could say to address each."Persona + buying committee mapperA good founder has a one-page document with two columns: 'user' on the left, 'customer' on the right. Each column has a real name or archetype, a job, their daily workflow, and the exact outcome they're buying. When they're the same person, great — one column. When they're different, two columns and two different marketing funnels. Clear. Written down. Re-read weekly.
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