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AI Essay Coaching: Helping Without Doing It For Them
Parents see kids using AI for college essays. Helping them use it well — without crossing into doing it for them — is a real parenting skill.
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- 1The premise
- 2college essays
- 3AI coaching
- 4authentic voice
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Section 1
The premise
College essay AI use exists on a spectrum from coaching to ghostwriting; parents shape where their kid lands.
What AI does well here
- Make sure your kid can articulate the essay's story verbally before any AI involvement
- Coach them to use AI for brainstorming and feedback, not drafting
- Read drafts together and ask 'does this sound like you?'
- Connect them to school counselors who know the specific colleges' AI policies
What AI cannot do
- Write the essay yourself or via AI for them
- Replace the kid's authentic voice with sophisticated AI prose
- Skip the conversation about academic integrity
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