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Why You Should Never Confess Anything Real to a Chatbot
Chats with AI feel private — they almost never are. Here's where your messages actually go.
Builders · Safety & Governance · ~13 min read
Why You Should Never Confess Anything Real to a Chatbot
Chats with AI feel private — they almost never are. Here's where your messages actually go.
What to actually do
- Most free AI services log every chat for 30+ days, often forever
- Many use your messages to train new models unless you opt out
- Subpoenas have already pulled chat logs as evidence in court
Key terms in this lesson
The big idea: AI chats look private but live in a database. Treat the chat box like a postcard, not a diary.
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